Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) Podcast

A conversation between two queer, neurodivergent IFS therapists who wanted to talk about the things that don't always make it into the training room.

Hosted by Jude Carn and Alessio Rizzo, Queering IFS explores what happens when you bring a queer and neurodivergent lens to Internal Family Systems therapy. Each episode is a genuine conversation: about identity, parts, self-energy, shame, joy, nature, and the places where the model needs to stretch a little further.

Whether you're an IFS therapist, in IFS therapy yourself, or just curious about what it means to do this work in a body and a life like yours, you're welcome here.

New episodes drop fortnightly. Find us on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.

Episode 16 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Discrimination Burnout
Jude Carn Jude Carn

Episode 16 - Queering Internal Family Systems (IFS) - Discrimination Burnout

Not all discrimination announces itself. Sometimes it's the thing that didn't happen: the job that went to someone else, the room that went quiet, the invitation that never came. In this episode Jude and Alessio look at discrimination burnout, and specifically at how the weight of these non-events accumulates in neurodivergent and queer systems.

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Episode 13 - Queering IFS - Access Fatigue
Jude Carn Jude Carn

Episode 13 - Queering IFS - Access Fatigue

In this episode, Jude and Alessio explore the concept of access fatigue, the exhaustion that comes from repeatedly having to ask for, explain, or negotiate your needs in spaces that were not designed with you in mind.

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